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7 Tips for Choosing the Perfect Wedding Shoes
July 31, 2025 by
The Shoe Edit
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When it comes to bridal fashion, the spotlight usually goes straight to the dress—but your wedding shoes deserve just as much attention. They carry you down the aisle, across the dancefloor, and through every unforgettable moment in between.

Here are a few smart, stylish tips for finding the perfect pair for your big day.


1. Prioritize Comfort (Seriously!)

Your wedding day will be long—full of standing, walking, dancing, and possibly climbing into flower-filled vintage cars. Comfort isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity.

📝 Tip: Test shoes by wearing them around the house for an hour or two before the big day. Cushioning insoles can also be a game-changer.


2. Match Your Dress, But Don’t Disappear Into It

While your shoes don’t need to be an exact match, they should complement your dress in tone and style. If your dress is heavily embroidered or detailed, simpler shoes work well. If your gown is sleek and minimal, your shoes can add that extra pop.

📝 Tip: Ivory, champagne, or metallics (like gold or rose gold) are classic choices—but bold colours can be a fun surprise under the hem too!


3. Think About the Venue

Beach wedding? Skip stilettos. Garden ceremony? Maybe no to the suede.

📝 Tip: Choose block heels or wedges for outdoor venues, and keep weather and terrain in mind. You don’t want to sink into the grass or slip on a tiled floor.


4. Break Them In—Gently

New shoes need time to soften. Break them in slowly by wearing them around the house with socks or using a shoe stretcher.

📝 Tip: Avoid breaking them in on the actual day. Your feet will thank you.


5. Have a Second Pair for Dancing

Consider switching to a second, more comfortable pair for the reception—especially if your main shoes are high or embellished.

📝 Tip: Cute white sneakers, bridal flats, or even embellished sandals are great for dancing the night away.


6. Mind the Length of Your Dress

Your shoe height will affect your hemline. Always bring your wedding shoes (or something similar in height) to your dress fittings.

📝 Tip: Final alterations should be done with your wedding shoes on so the dress is tailored perfectly.


7. Stay True to You

If you never wear heels, your wedding day isn't the time to start. Choose shoes that feel authentic to your personal style. Whether it’s elegant stilettos, barefoot sandals, or a pair of sparkly flats—you do you.

📝 Tip: Custom embroidery, meaningful charms, or even initials on the soles can add a personal touch.


👡 Final Thoughts from Serendip Events

Your wedding shoes should make you feel beautiful, balanced, and confident—every step of the way. Choose with care, walk with joy, and don’t forget to kick them off at some point and just dance. 💃🏽✨

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